: "Looking good" is completely meaningless unless there is someone
: else there to look at you. The pleasure you get from looking good is how
: others respond to that, or imagining future encounters in which people
: respond well to it.
If you make a beautiful painting, then burn it before anyone else sees it, was it never beautiful?
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