No, that's making a conscious decision to be aware of another person's feelings or the general atmosphere of a situation and adapt your social skills accordingly. You said that you don't care about another person's feelings when you're talking. That's fine, it's your provolone. Still doesn't mean you shouldn't be decent and respectful from the get go. Political correctness does not infringe on your right to say whatever you please in a social setting. Like at all. Otherwise I could sue a million people who throw sexist and queerphobic comments my way. What it does is encourage people to think about what they say and be mindful of others professionally and socially.

: there is a fine line of someone holding a gun to my head saying I can't
: say something and telling me I need to change my words to make your
: feeling now hurt. Why couldn't that be used against gay's (which btw I am
: bi), and say I don't like how you talk about kissing dudes? That also
: proves my point that if you don't like it you can move along. You may
: think me speaking my mind makes me an asshole but so did England when
: America spoke it's mind...

I feel like you're following the Cole Protocol to the letter and making a bunch of random slipspace jumps on your way to a point.

: Also what does people like me mean? Do you know anything about me other than
: I play video games and am not PC?

They were referring to people who criticize the notion of political correctness.