No he's not. You're mustaking "over the top" for "directness".

: Don't worry, I take no offense as I know those with fragile feelings often
: can't tell the difference- it's not their fault.

There you go again. Attacking me for no good reason. I don't have "fragile feelings". If you knew me, then you would know that. But you, clearly, don't. And you're, once again, assuming.

: I'm not confrontational, I'm just a very blunt person.

You're confusing "blunt" with "confrontational". A "blunt person" dies not attack another nor does he assume he knows everything about that person.

: A jerk, you or some might say.

What do you think a confortational person is, if not a jerk? lol

: I said what needed to be said, and that's that.

It did not "need" to be said. It's simply what you wanted to say. Learn the difference, please.