: Maybe in his absence something happened to her and Finn.
: He may have perished, and she may have been hideously
: wounded. I think that would be reason enough to hate
: someone- she'd probably blame him (Damas) for not
: being there.
Or, if we accept that she and the rest of the Myrmidons were as vain as they're reputed to be, maybe she started to hate Damas for being a Heron Guard and therefore eternally young, while she grew old and withered.
And as you say, Balor most likely charmed her into believing herself beautiful again.
